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TOUTANT, Elayne Joan (nee Bromby)

June 13, 1985– Calgary, AB
January 10, 2014 – Calgary, AB

Elayne Joan Toutant (nee Bromby) passed away peacefully in her husband’s arms on January 10, 2014 after a courageous eight month battle with cancer.

Elayne’s positive spirit, courage, thoughtfulness, intelligence and love for life remained strong throughout her journey. Her love for family, friends, music, travel, fashion, and her puppies kept her strong and motivated to live each day as fully as possible. Although their time together was too short, Elayne found her true love in Clay and knew each moment how much she was loved.

Elayne is survived by her husband, Clay Toutant, her dad, Greg Bromby, her mom, Joan Whitcher, her mother and father-in-law Carolyn and Ray Toutant, brothers-in-law, Mick (Dawn), Tim (Nicole), Kris (Le-Anne), nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles and friends.

Those wishing to pay their respects may do so at McINNIS & HOLLOWAY’S Fish Creek Chapel (14441 Bannister Road S.E.) on Friday, January 17, 2014 at 2:30 p.m. Forward condolences through If friends so desire, donations may be made to Victoria’s Quilts at

In living memory of Elayne Toutant , a tree will be planted at Fish Creek Provincial Park by McINNIS & HOLLOWAY FUNERAL HOMES, Fish Creek Chapel, 14441 BANNISTER ROAD S.E. Telephone: (403) 256-9575.

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  1. Joan and Jim Morgotch :

    We were so sad to hear of Elayne’s passing. We will always remember her beautiful smile. Our deepest sympathy to the family for this tremendous loss.

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  2. Patricia Suteu :

    I’m hearbroken at this loss. My deepest condolences to Clay and the rest of Elayne’s family. Elayne was such a beautiful person inside and out. I will miss her tremendously!

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  3. Shannon Matthews :

    My deepest condolences. I had the priviledge of working with Elayne. Though it was for a short time, she made a huge impact with her love for life and positive outlook.

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  4. Cathy Lane Goodfellow :

    I feel devastated by Elayne’s passing. She was a generous, honest, courageous woman who’s insight and wisdom I cherished and will miss every day. She taught me things about life and the need to stay positive despite and in spite of tragedy and chaos. To Elayne’s soul-mate Clay and father Greg: I know your grief is all encompassing. But, I pray that her memory, her love for you and her gentle spirit will be a comfort for you in the days and weeks to come. Sincerely, Cathy.

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  5. To my Dearest Friend Elayne, our time together has been a journey of LOVE; RESPECT and the true meaning of Friendship. Your strength; courage; intelligence and passion is admired; loved. You have been my hero in so many ways and I love you with all my heart. Your dedication to youth and in particular our little treasure Destiney has been the BEST journey I could of embarked on. HOPE was part of my daily life and with you I have truly understood the meaning and will hold on to my ” Angel Hope Coin” FOREVER. I have witnessed the love between you and Clay and it is MAGiCAL and EVERLASTING. I love both of you always and forever. Thank you for being my friend today; tomorrow and always. You will live in my heart forever buddy! I just loved that you always called me that. You are an angel of HOPE and I can’t wait to see you again Buddy! x0x0xx0 Love Nancy

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  6. This still doesn’t seem real to me… I’ve only had the pleasure of knowing Elayne and Clay for a year now, but it’s honestly felt like a life time. We all met in Florida down in the keys kiteboarding, after our first beers together I knew we would all be life long friends. Even with thousands of miles between us we still managed to keep in touch talk, laugh and plan out our future adventures together. Her energy, love, and amazing personality will always be remembered and her smile and laugh will always be with us. To Clay and all the family I haven’t met yet, stay positive, remember the good times, and the laughs. I’m sending love and positive vibes your way hope to see you soon.
    Sincerly, Nick Ziegler

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  7. Cindy & Avery Macleod :

    My heartfelt condolences to Clay and Elayne’s family. Elayne was a truly amazing person and although our friendship was much too short, she had such a positive impact in my life. I have never met anyone as strong and courageous as Elayne and she was definitely one of a kind. I will miss her hilarious sense of humor, feisty personality and our conversations that could go on for hours! Elayne will never be forgotten and I am so thankful for the friendship that we shared. Xoxoxox

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  8. Paul Hawthorne :

    I am so sad to hear about Elayne. I have had so many great conversations with her while working at the courthouse. The world will miss her spirit, energy, and brillant light she shared with everyone. My loving thoughts go to her family and friends. I will forever remember her smile, kindness, and passion for life. So much love and light to all that feel this incredible loss.
    Paul Hawthorne

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  9. sheila olexyn :

    Although distance kept us from meeting your beautiful wife i just want to let you know how sorry i am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers for strength are with you and your loved ones. Love from afar… Aunt Sheila.

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  10. Ashley Olexyn :

    Clay Im so sorry to hear of your loss. From what I have read and the pics you and her have posted Elayne seemed to have been a wonderful person to have a part of your life. Its truly tragic. We love you Clay, and our hearts, thoughts, and prayers are with you and the family!
    Love you cousin

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  11. I was lucky enough to get know Elayne during our time training at work and commuting together. Her passion for the people and things she loved was contagious. Her intelligence and strength never ceased to amaze me. It is without a doubt that Elayne was deeply loved and did so in return. She will be missed tremedously. My thoughts are with Clay and the rest of her family.

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  12. Elayne was a good friend of my daughter, Dayna (since junior high) and we have had ongoing contact over the years. This fall, I was diagnosed with ALS and Elayne (despite the progression of her own illness) came to see me and brought me some very thoughtful gifts.
    I know that Elayne is in a better place and that she is at peace–my sincere condolences and sympathy go out to Clay, her parents, extended family and friends!

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  13. Blair and Evelyn MacSween :

    Dear Clay : I have never met you or your lovely wife Elayne, but I have been praying for you both for months now. Our son Brandon works with you and he told us of your story. He met your wife and told us she was an”awesome person”. This will be such a hard time for you, but just remember that like a ship on the horizon, when you loose sight of her, someone else is waving for her on the other side. I hope this brings you some peace at such a difficult time. Take Care and surround yourself with friends. xo (Cape Breton).

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  14. Elayne worked in our office for only a short time before she became ill. She brought enthusiasm and genuine engagement to her work and quickly developed great relationships. Over the past months we’ve missed her and everyone has thought about her often.

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Elayne was a wonderful person. I feel that I’m a better person for having known her, even though it was only for a short time.

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  15. My deepest condolences to Elayne and Clay’s family. Elayne’s zest for life was immediately felt as soon as you talk to her be. Although our time with her at work was very short,she will be greatly missed. As soon as she was diagnosed, her and I shared our experiences while going through treatment as I went through the same. Despite how aggressive her treatment was she always made light of her situation. The last message I got from her, she told me:

    “Cancer highlights your mortality instantly and I think that it can be a real gift, makes life more precious. I am just looking forward to having that view once on the other side of this.”

    I hope and pray that your view on the other side is way better than our Elayne. You will be greatly missed.

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  16. Gary and Shelly Bromby :

    Dear Family of Elayne,
    I know we didn’t know you but my husband is a cousin of Elayne’s Dad. Being a Bromby, we are all related. My son Graham is the same age as Elayne. Our thoughts are with you as you go through this very difficult time. Please know that we are thinking of you all and wish there was more we could do. God Bless you all. Gary, Shelly, Graham, Trevor and Melanie Bromby

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  17. My heart hurts so much for you Clay! The love and support you showed for Elayne in the last several months is beyond admirable!! There is no doubt in my mind that you made her feel so special in such a difficult time! She was extremely fortunate to have you in her life and to have you as her husband! May you and all of those who were dear to her, find comfort in knowing her spirit will ALWAYS be with you! Love you buddy!! Xoxo

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  18. My deepest condolences to Clay and extended family, my Aunt Joanie and Greg. As one of Elayne’s cousins, I am truly touched reading all of these condolences and thoughts. Truly, she will be missed in the lives of everyone who knew her. Throughout the years, I have always admired Elayne’s passion for life and her love of travel. I am glad she was able to experience true love; and it is so sad that she was taken from this world so abruptly.

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  19. Noe boissonneault :

    My condolences to all of Elayne”s family. I was lucky enough to work with Elayne. She had a great sense of humor and I always looked forward to volunteering with her in breakfast club at the school. She will be missed.

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  20. Rodney Veinotte :

    So very sorry to read of the passing of your loved one, in the future Jehovah God promises that no resident will say I am sick, (Isaiah 33:24) and may the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, help you through this difficult time, (2 Corinthians 1:3).

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  21. My sincere expression of sympathy on the tragic loss of Elayne.

    Bob and Gail Bromby

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  22. Debbie and Richard Ross :

    Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. May God bless and keep you.

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  23. Nevia and Roman Woloszczuk :

    Dear Joan, we are deeply saddened by the news of Elayne’s passing. Our heart felt condolences to you and your family. Although we have not met Elayne, you have always spoken so fondly and lovingly about her, and we share your pain. Although we are far away, we keep you in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult loss.

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  24. Barbara Clark Gordon :

    We met but once. Once was enough to know the goodness of Elayne. To gaze into her eyes was to truly sense her spirit and love for all of life and its many treasures. Her smile so much like her mother Joan! Elayne’s persona, well, it was all her own! Vibrant, loving, adventurous and true to heart….May her kind generous soul walk with angels before her . May family and friends find comfort in times passed, memories shared, and unconditional love known. Elayne’s “goodness”can live on through all of us! It will ! She touched the hearts of many and many will remember! God Bless ,love always ,your cousin ,Barbara Clark Gordon

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  25. Greg,
    My condolences,
    I never met Elayne but did talk with her and send e mails and knew
    she was a real good daughter.
    You know there is hope in the resurrection and time will heal.
    Best Regards and keep in touch.
    Don, Sherrolyn, Lori and Diana.

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  26. Khalil Popatia :

    In reading through the emotional words of some of her friends and family members, one cannot help but feel the warmth and friendship that Elayne generously provided to so many. Although I knew her for only a short time, she was clearly a special person who touched so many hearts. You must be very proud of Elayne’s accomplishments and I can only hope that all of these wonderful compliments about Elayne and all of the joyous memories you have help you through this difficult time. My thoughts are with you,


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  27. Ed and Pat Berdusco :

    To Clay, Joan and Greg – our prayers are with you in this great loss you have suffered. Although I did not get to see Elayne being up in Northern Ontario, I heard from Joan and Judie about her condition. She was in my prayers daily and was such a beautiful girl – to Clay for being such a wonderful husband, her Mom and Dad and the many family and friends.
    She is in a beautiful place and will be watching over all of you.

    Her smile and spirit will alway be in everyone’s memory. Take care all of you as you have a champion keeping her eyes on you.

    Much love from Great Aunt Pat and Uncle Ed in Wawa, Ontario.

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  28. Roslyne Buchanan :

    Deepest condolences to family and friends of Elayne.
    I met her years ago as a young lady whose talents shone through despite her shyness.
    Mostly though I knew her through her Aunt Nora Whitcher whose unconditional love in speaking about Elayne lit up the atmosphere like the Aurora Borealis dances on Northern skies. Through Nora I was able to witness the magic of Elayne evolving into a beautiful and vibrant young woman. How fortunate for all of us to have shared this earth with Elayne. May her memories comfort you as the aria of her life plays on in the hearts of those who knew her.

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  29. Dave, Marielle, Jessica & Chris, Sarah, Jennylee & Sean, Benjamin & Sabrina Bromby :

    Far away but close in mind and love…She sounds like a beautiful person inside out…So few words can express our feelings toward the family…Greg, keep you head up high as she choose the best father ever and for her mother our greatest sympathie as we didn’t know her. I would like to say, she left behind many great memories that will never die, keep those close to your heart and slowly the emptiness her absence has left will slowly rekindle with the beautiful life you have experience together….

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  30. Phill Zbetnoff :

    My sincere condolences go out to the family and friends of Elayne and especially to my friend Clayton.
    Clayton, no words I can say can help ease the pain that you are feeling. I can say this though, all of us who know you, we knew the love you felt for her. Remember the good times and she will forever be with you.

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  31. Jennifer Pook :

    While I only knew her a short time, those sunny days in Puerto Vallarta will always make me smile. I’m glad she was with those she loved the most in her final days. My heart goes out to you all.

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  32. Kathleen Reyes :

    I was lucky enough to work with Elayne during her time with the youth office. Her focus on helping young people was apparent each day of her work life, and her fearlessness in finding ways to create a connection with young people we work with is borne out in those young persons who even after Elayne left our office, would ask about “the nice lady named Elayne” who was helping them before. Her considerate nature, her candy affections, and the pure effervescence she had for each day are what I will most about Elayne. I was so glad to catch up with her when she came to our office’s anniversary celebrations and was heartened to see her eyes light up and face glow with the excitement she had over plans for her future with her Clay. I’m comforted by the fact that when she left this mortal earth, it was within the company of those who loved her and who made sure she knew how much she was loved. I will miss her and I mourn her absence from this world. My condolences go out to her husband, her family, and all who were lucky enough to also know Elayne in some way.

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  33. Nancy Fraser Carrier :

    Joan, Greg, Clay and family ~ I live in Tampa,FL and am a friend of Elayne’s aunt Judie (Whitcher Flynn). Judie kept me up-to-date on Elayne during her illness, and although I had never met her, Elayne became a role model for me. Her courage, determination and positive spirit as she battled her illness, gave me hope to see me through difficult times. I hope she knew just how special she was. Judie showed me a picture of Elayne, taken not long before her diagnosis, with her beautiful long hair and gorgeous smile. She was absolutely stunning and I know just as lovely on the inside as well. I hope your memories of her will bring you peace in the coming days.

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  34. I find it hard to express the way I feel about your great loss but know I feel the sorry that you must feel with the passes of Elayne. Your cousin Wayne

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  35. Jim and Eileen Antoshkiw :

    We never met Elayne, but for Clay to have loved her so much she had to be a very special person. Thoughts and prayers go out to the families. Love you Clay, you were a godsend to Elayne through her illness. God Bless.
    Auntie Eileen & Uncle Jimxxoo

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  36. Candice Alvarez & Brandon Spain :

    Toutant & Bromby Families,
    You may not know me or Brandon, but Elayne was a great friend of ours. Even though we were 1530 miles away from each other we still managed to stay in touch, daily. We met exactly 2 years ago on vacation in the Bahamas and instantly I knew we were going to be great friends. Together we plotted and planned all sorts of future vacations and festivals we could attend together. A few we actually lived out. I still plan to work on those we had not gotten to, with her close to my heart, as I know she wouldn’t have it any other way.
    Elayne brought an unexplainable excitement into life, into any room she entered. We had a connection as if we had been life long friends even though our friendship was far too short. She not only touched my life, but she and Clay met so many of our friends here in California, who send their love and are incredibly saddened over this loss. Brandon and I will miss Elayne tremendously. Words cannot express how heartbroken we are. I know that she is in a better place and no longer in pain.
    Much Love,
    Candice & Brandon

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  37. I had the privilege of working with Elayne over a couple of years and ran into her from time to time at the dog park. Her spirit, sense of humour and kind personality were unforgettable. I’m so saddened to hear of her passing. She will be missed and always remembered. My deepest condolences to her family.

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  38. Kristian sell :

    My deepest sympathy and condolences to clay and all her wonderful friends and family. Elayne was a wonderful funny, great spirited person. I was fortunate enough to have had the pleasure of being friends and knowing her since she began her journey as a young vibrant energetic practicum student at HOPE work experience. Then having the opportunity to work with her again in the same classroom at hull school. She was such and amazing person who always helped others and me through tough times at work and on a personal level. I will greatly miss her and the positive outlook on life she had as well as the the great laughs we had together! Will miss u “buddy”!!!! As she would always say:)

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  39. Vince Jelenic :

    I can only offer my little share of sadness Elayne’s passing brings us all.
    For the loss of such a special person, to such a special family I hope my sharing in your sadness can alleviate a little of the pain felt.
    I have known Joan for over 2 years now, and her feelings about her daughter were wondrous.
    She spoke highly of Elayne, and I came to feel as if I had known her just a bit.

    I am deeply saddened in our loss of Elayne.

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  40. I am a friend of Elayne’s aunt Judie and I feel like I know Elayne from the wonderful things Judie told me about her. She was such a bright spirit with a wonderful zest for life. She was loving and she was loved by those lucky enough to know her. I am sad that I did not get to know her and I am sad for those who did. My condolences to her friends and family.

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  41. I worked with Elayne at the Youth Office.
    For Elayne, life was so very precious and it was clear to me that she faced each day with a real zest for life. This “Lust for Life” (Iggy Pop) was truly refreshing and she made me reflect upon how lucky we are to have the privilege to do the things we do in our work and in our “play”.
    It is unfathomable to be mourning her loss.
    She was taken too soon.
    It is easy to say that it is not fair… But, I think if Elayne was still here among us mortals, she would discourage such sombre thoughts, and make everyone look at the bright side.
    So…. I’m looking at the bright side, and what is so apparent to me is that she made the world a much better place for all those who had the privilege to know her.
    My heartfelt condolences to her husband, Clay, and her family.
    Music was so important to her, and I just know that the most beautiful melodies are surrounding her now.
    Much love.

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  42. Joan & Family,

    My deepest condolences in your great loss. I remember Debby talking fondly of Elayne. My heart goes out to you.


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  43. Melissa Roels :

    I had the honour of working with Elayne at Hull School and had the opportunity to really get to know her when we were preparing to take our Child and Youth Care certification. She helped me prepare and guided me through the process even though before that we didn’t really know each other. I’m glad I had that opportunity to get to know her, and learn what a remarkable person she was. My thoughts go out to her family and friends during this difficult time.

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  44. Shirley Patriquin :

    Treasure the memories of that beautiful soul! Thank goodness she was here.

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  45. Robert Knight :

    My thoughts are with you. Every time we would meet you would speak of Elayne. She was your pride and joy. Your face would always light up when speaking of her. You have my deepest sympathy.

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  46. Sue & Fran Forand :

    There are no words to express our sincere sympathy on Elayne’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
    Lots of love,
    Sue & Fran

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  47. A week ago today, I said goodbye to my sweet friend Elayne. A friend who taught me so much about living, despite knowing the end was so near. It saddens me to know there won’t be any more texts saying, “You awake? It’s going to be another AMAZING day!” Elayne faced each day with a goal and a plan. You were either with her or against her…..but not against her for long, as she had no time for that. Her plan was happening.
    My friendship with Elayne will always be a special part of my life, and her lessons will be with me forever. Our bond grew through good times and bad, laughter and tears, defying the generation gap. Humor was our mutual friend. Along with an abundance of humor in life, there was even humor in her pending death. She giggled as she used excessive tape to put photos everywhere in her hospital room, knowing she didn’t have to take them down. She had the last laugh with her cell phone provider as she signed a “fantastic” 3 year contract for her recently purchased iPhone 5. Always thinking. Always looking for a bright side. I marveled at her ability to navigate through her medical journey with such integrity and determination to keep everyone on their toes. Her caregivers knew she was the boss and on a “need to know” basis at all times. Even from her hospital bed she had everything and everyone organized. As Elayne would say, “BOOM!”
    To Clay, my friend: I thank you for allowing me to part of so many special times with you and Elayne. You and your bride were perfect for each other. She loved you so much. You were her “hero”, “rock”, “baby”. You made her feel so loved, and she was so happy to be your wife. You kept all your promises. You were her lifeline. You were strong for her when she couldn’t be strong, and her voice as she weakened. You were her safe place to fall when she lost her will. She knew she was in a good place.
    To Greg and Joan: You had such a beautiful daughter; beautiful in every way. I hope all your memories will keep you strong in the days to come. Yes Greg, she was such a “good girl”.
    To the rest of the Bromby and Toutant families, I offer my condolences; take care of each other.
    “Love you forever Elayne…sweet dreams”
    Jodi XO

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  48. I did not know Elayne as well as I wish I could have; yet the few times we met were enough to impact me: she made me think, made me laugh, made me act on the living of life rather than the passive spending of time.

    She certainly made the most of the brief times we had; may I keep her lessons close to my heart and in my everyday practices. I now understand what Clay meant when he described the gifts of his lady love; her spark, an infectious draw that she had over people…to draw them in and draw them together.

    Clay, Greg, Joan, family, and friends…we offer our condolences and our hope that we can honor her spirit and her wishes by loving and living and getting on with all of the good stuff…and finding good stuff despite that which we don’t understand, can’t change…

    With love,
    Debbie Todd & Dary Bissonnette, Calgary AB

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  49. John Marriott :

    I just learned the news tonight and wanted to pass on my sincere condolences. I will always remember Elayne’s giant smile lighting up the dance floor wherever she went. She was a beautiful girl with a beautiful spirit.

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  50. Lorraine St. Martin :

    Dear Joan,
    I am so saddened by the loss of your beautiful daughter, Elayne. Over the years I’ve heard you speak about Elayne and what she was doing with pride that highlighted her beauty, strength and determination. I hope knowing she meant so much to so many will help nurture you in the time ahead.
    Greg, Clay, and to all of Elayne’s family,
    My condolences and my thoughts are with you.

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  51. Julie Jousset (Jones) :

    I had the pleasure of working with Elayne at her 1st job while she was still in high school. Even at that young age I saw what a beautiful heart she had. I was so proud to see her succeed at her career goals and find the love of her life. She was beautiful inside and out, the world needs more people like her. She will be greatly missed by all those who’s lives she touched.

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  52. Susan Swett Gosselin :

    Dear Joan,
    I was so sorry to hear of Elayne’s passing. My heart goes out to you. There are no words…. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. xx

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  53. Laura Evdemon, Tampa FL :

    My deepest sympathy extends to all who knew Elayne, especially her dear mother Joan. I am so sorry for your loss on her passing. I met Elayne once when she came for dinner to my home with her beloved Aunt Judie on one of her many trips to Florida around 2005. I will always remember her fondly as a lovely young woman … and one who fought her brief battle with great courage and humor. The many tributes posted here attest to that. Our prayers continue for the entire family and for Clay who never left her side. Peace be with you.

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  54. apple dawn chabot :

    We are saddened to hear of your loss, Elayne was a very nice person. May her soul be at rest in peace, and all the prayers & thoughts for all her loved ones Clay, Parents & sibling’s.

    Our sincere condolences,
    Eric & Dawn Chabot

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  55. Stevie farraway :

    My dearest Elayne, words cannot describe the impact you had on my life. To a beautiful friend And mentor. I can still remember the first time we met in the library at AE Cross. All my friends were jealous that I had this fun, young, and beautiful mentor. While my others friends had older mentors. The first time we hung out we coloured dragon pictures. I think yours was purple and pink!! Girl power !!! It didn’t matter what we did, we always had fun. I loved it when we would go for sushi cause I had no idea what you were ordering but you knew all the good stuff. Like you were Japanese in disguise. Talking to you was like talking to a big sister. I never had a sister but always wanted one. Our conversations were always easy. No stress and nothing I couldn’t say. Elayne was there for me in my darkest and lightest days. I remember how proud you were of me when I graduated. I will never forget that moment in the bar. This entire journey I’ve been on has been a rollarcoster. As always you were there to comfort or congratulate me. I know working with kids like me was your career. But we had something different. You were more than that to me and I too you. I can only strive to be as caring and selfless as you. You are a true role model Elayne. I will never forget the wonderful lessons you have taught me. Will never forget your beautiful smile. And certinantly won’t forget your big giant heart!!! And don’t worry, as sad as I am I’m living my life to the fullest. Stopping to smell the roses on the way. I know that’s what you would want. I love you Elayne!!!

    Your loving friend and protege,
    Stevie – Lynn xoxoxooo

    P.s. I’ll be sure to eat lots of Pho’ for you <333

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  56. Nancy Piche :

    I know I wrote here already but I am needing to do that again Elayne! I want you to know that our little treasure is doing it! I have spent many hours writing back and forth with your mom; that is gift and I have had some moments to sit with Clay and just talk about you. I miss you Elayne! I miss you so much. I think of you each day; I have a candle that burns in my home everyday. I miss my friend. Love you Elayne! x0x0x0x0x0

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  57. Nancy Piche :

    Happy Birthday Elayne! It’s been a hard day because I have never missed you more. It was cold and raining all day; I think it was your way in saying: ” Don’t cry friend. It’s my freakin birthday! Smile and enjoy rain. Just like you told us to kick the snow when you get the chance!” Rain is peaceful. You brought us peace today on your special day. Your smile was so infectious Elayne. Your laugh was addicting. I just loved how you always had a way of turning things around and making a pessimist to an optimist! I lit a candle again for you. I stopped by a trendy coffee place and had a funky drink in your honor today. I miss you Elayne. Happy Birthday Buddy!
    Your friend always Nancy

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  58. Well me again my dear FRIEND!
    I went to the Tree Planting ceremony honoring all those who are now in their Heaven last weekend. You are part of this Elayne! They planted a tree in your honor. That is so cool! That’s what you would say buddy. It’s at Fish Creek Park. So beautiful there. Peaceful. Just for you my friend and guess what? It was a beautiful; blue sky sunny day. Perfect. I know you were there. I saw your puppy; well your big dog now. I saw Clay and your dad. It was a sweet day. I walked the park and just thought of our special times together. Just know I am missing your like crazy! Sweet dreams buddy x0x0x0x0

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  59. Merry Christmas my friend. I miss you more each day. It’s been a tough a year buddy but I did ” kick the snow” every chance I got! I know you are watching over me and my family.
    I miss you terribly and think of you each day.
    I love you.
    Love Nancy

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  60. Nancy Piche :

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUDDY! Today is your 30th Birthday. That’s a milestone for sure. I know where you are today. You will find time to stop and see the ones you love just for them to feel your love and then of course I am sure you will go out and find a concert somewhere! Enjoy it buddy.
    I miss you all the time. You are in my heart always. Love you my friend. Forever. You never wanted anybody to forget you. We haven’t Elayne! Never. x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0xx0x00xx0

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  61. destiny murdoch :

    To my best friend and truly biggest inspiration in my life, there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t miss u u honestly made a big difference in my life and tho I may not b exactly what I hoped to b or doing what is best for me at times u still gave me the direction and love I needed in my life u I truly truly mean it when I say u brought value to my life. Morals value positivity kindness are all things I wouldn’t have in my life today without u I miss u sooooo damn much it hurts but I know u r there even in the hardest of times n I know whenever u r sad I can still make u smile… u hv the truest most genuine smile ur gorgeous my love and everyday I strive to b more and more like u the world needs more ppl like u but no one can ever replace my crayon eating free spirited Elayne rip my baby n know we will meet again always in my heart I love u
    . Destiny xoxoxoxo

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  62. My Friend!
    It’s been quite sometime since I wrote here. I still think of you always. I think of your Clay, your mother. Your family and friends. I know you have inspired them and continue to watch over us and give us HOPE! I love you and miss you terribly always. I carry your strength and courage everyday.
    Love Nancy

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  63. 4 years have gone by my friend. I still cry. I cried also few times yesterday, and even Monday. I miss your smile, your laugh, just YOU! Funny but I had to go downtown today for work and as I was driving; I swear I saw you just like that time I can see you running because you were meeting me for lunch and you were running late. Remember how much we laughed about that?

    I love you! I cut my hair even shorter! Always will. It reminds me that as a woman we are strong, beautiful and powerful no matter if we have long hair or no hair!!!

    You are in my heart!
    I kicked the snow today for you and our song even played when I was driving in my car today thinking of you. I know you are here.

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  64. Nancy Piche :

    Hi my friend. It was your birthday on Wednesday. I think of you all the time. Sometimes, it’s during a walk and that sun is beaming on my skin and the warmth makes me smile. Sometimes, it’s when I am just sitting and watching the rain coming down from my window and having a great cup of coffee. Sometimes it’s when I am driving, the wind hitting my face, an awesome song playing and I am singing along. I love thinking of you at camp, and the stars are out and the sky is just quiet and beautiful. All of this is you and I know you are with us all. You are my friend and our angel. Always. Happy Birthday buddy x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x0x00x I miss you alot.

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