“Creating a Memorable Funeral Ceremony” was developed when McInnis & Holloway Funeral Homes recognized that grieving families were communicating a greater need to express their grief. More often today, families and friends are seeking ways of providing memorials that truly reflect the personality and spirit of the person who has died. Tributes that accurately reflect a person’s life bring additional meaning to the funeral ceremony, and can also help friends and family with the grieving process.

When the ceremony is over the family needs to be satisfied that they have done their best to honour the life of their loved one. We trust the information provided in “Creating A Memorable Funeral Ceremony” will present the resources necessary to create a living picture of the way a person has spent their time on earth.

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Although funeral ceremonies are as unique as the person’s life being celebrated, a successful funeral will have a structure to it. Whether religious or not, a funeral ceremony generally has these five sections. Not all funerals contain every component, and not all funerals proceed in the same order.

1) introduction
2) thoughts on life and death
3) tribute or eulogy
4) committal
5) conclusion

Every person is a unique individual, and each funeral ceremony celebrates that. The best funeral ceremony should reflect the deceased person’s life and style, while providing comfort for those in attendance. The more personal a funeral ceremony can be, the more meaningful it will become. Remember, that the goal is to have people leaving a funeral service feeling better than when they arrived.

Enhancement With Music
Music is an important element for a funeral service for many reasons. To have music playing while people arrive for a funeral can help to provide a more relaxing atmosphere, as people are often apprehensive about attending a funeral service.
During the ceremony, one or two specially selected pieces of music (whether classical, country, contemporary or any other kind) can personalize the ceremony.
McInnis & Holloway’s Music Coordinator will speak directly with families to discuss the music that will best suit their needs.

Tips on Public Speaking
Public speaking is difficult for a lot of people, and can be especially hard at a ceremony that is as emotionally charged as a funeral. Here are some tips to help make that experience go smoother.

First and foremost, be prepared! It is vital to meet with the bereaved family before the ceremony. This gives you an opportunity to comfort them plus allows them time to gather their thoughts.

Telling stories, is a great way of connecting with the audience – people love stories and can relate to them.